Posts Tagged ‘job’

Self Confidence. Great Story

December 18th, 2009
A businessman was deep in debt and could see no way out. Creditors were closing in on him. Suppliers were demanding payment. He sat on the park bench, head in hands, wondering if anything could save his company from bankruptcy.

Suddenly an old man appeared before him.

“I can see that something is troubling you,” he said.

After listening to the executive’s woes, the old man said, “I believe I can help you.”

He asked the man his name, wrote out a check, and pushed it into his hand saying, “Take this money.
Meet me here exactly one year from today, and you can pay me back at that time.”

Then he turned and disappeared as quickly as he had come.

The business executive saw in his hand a check for $500,000 signed by John D. Rockefeller, then one of the richest men in the world!

“I can erase my money worries in an instant!” he realized. But instead, the executive decided to put the uncashed check in his safe.

Just knowing it was there might give him the strength to work out a way to save his business, he thought.

With renewed optimism, he negotiated better deals and extended terms of payment.
He closed several big sales. Within a few months, he was out of debt and making money once again.

Exactly one year later, he returned to the park with the uncashed check. At the agreed-upon time, the old man appeared. But just as the executive was about to hand back the check and share his success story, a nurse came running up and grabbed the old man.

“I’m so glad I caught him!” she cried. “I hope he hasn’t been bothering you.
He’s always escaping from the rest home and telling people he’s John D. Rockefeller. ”

And she led the old man away by the arm.

The astonished executive just stood there, stunned. All year long he’d been wheeling and dealing, buying and selling, convinced he had half a million dollars behind him.

Suddenly, he realized that it wasn’t the money, real or imagined, that had turned his life around.
It was his newfound self-confidence that gave him the power to achieve anything he went after.

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Fights can be healthy for organisations?

December 3rd, 2009

Most leadership experts argue that the best way to manage change is to create alignment. However, a research by the Harvard Business Review indicates that, for large-scale change or innovation initiatives, a healthy dose of dissent is usually just as important. Within an acceptable range of competition and tension, science shows that dissent will fire up more of an individual’s brain, stimulating more pathways and engaging more creative centers. In short, more of what makes people unique, innovative, and passionate is available for use.

When Dick Fuld took over at Lehman Brothers in 1994 as its Chairman, he inherited a contentious culture. Traders and investment bankers would not share ideas and competed for business, putting their own interests above the firm’s in nearly every instance.

In Fuld’s own words, published in Knowledge@Wharton in 2007, “The early Lehman Brothers was a great example of how not to do it. It was all about me. My job. My people. Pay me.” But by the mid-1990s, the financial services industry had shifted toward an integrated sales model, and such blatant disregard for teamwork didn’t fly any longer. Fuld made unity and collaboration priorities at the firm, nudging them along with employee incentives. By the time of its collapse, in 2008, Lehman reportedly had one of the strongest cultures of teamwork and loyalty on Wall Street. As Fortune had noted in April 2006, “Fuld has incongruously turned Lehman into one of Wall Street’s most harmonious firms.”

The effort to eliminate discord at the firm had backfired. Lehman’s board of directors and management team became too agreeable and too loyal, content to follow even when they knew better. In 2007 and 2008, numerous signals indicated that the firm was heading into a crisis, but insiders who paid attention to them were afraid to point out the elephant in the room. It turned out that ‘loyalty meant loyalty to Fuld,’ according to accounts from former employees. That loyalty led Lehman executives to an almost willful blindness. Nobody wanted to disrupt the peace.

The problem is that a peaceful, harmonious workplace can be the worst possible thing for a business, according to consultancy eePulse, which conducts in-depth surveys that measure employee engagement. Complacency, in fact, is the single greatest predictor of poor company performance. The second greatest? An environment in which employees are overwhelmed. In the first case, employees are reluctant to rock the boat. In the second, the level of employee satisfaction is low and the amount of dysfunctional fighting is high. In both situations, low energy levels and fear of political fallout curb action that might address any looming crisis. At Lehman, many alumnus said that, raising difficult questions could kill one’s career.

Many successful companies are known for their stressful work environments. Microsoft, in its early days, had one of the most contentious, high-strung, and fast-paced corporate cultures in the United States. Bill Gates and Steve Ballmer were famous for yelling at people. Food distributor Sysco, an unusually successful company built on roll-ups and acquisitions, dismisses district managers who don’t meet annual productivity targets. Market leaders Goldman Sachs and McKinsey are notoriously competitive, hard-driving places to work.

According to the report, the time is ripe to own up to the truth that the right balance of alignment and competition is what pushes individuals and groups to do their best. Alignment is important, but the purpose of alignment is not harmonious agreement. It is to sustain an organization’s ability to fight for what really matters, and to pull everyone together again once the fight is resolved.

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Inspire Others and Gain Respect

November 1st, 2009

10 Vital Actions To Inspire Others And Gain Respect

1. Make a small difference in someone’s life every day. It can be simple as helping a total stranger or an act of appreciation. The personal benefit, however, is huge in terms of how you’ll feel when you go to bed at night. It really is a nice feeling to realize that you have made a positive difference in the life of another human being. Sometimes the people you help will know it was you who did it, and other times they will never know.
Sometimes your efforts are noticed and appreciated; other times they are not. None of this matters. All that matters is that you know and that you get the positive feelings that result.

2. Trust Yourself. If you don’t believe in yourself, why would anyone else? Have confidence in your abilities. We all have something we are good at. For as long as you put your heart to it, you have the ability to make important changes.

3. Keep your word. Your reputation can take you places or bar you from them. If you say you will do something, do it! Don’t commit to something you can’t follow though, as it will create hairline fractures in your trustworthiness.

4. Be a good communicator. Increasing your ability to communicate effectively is a critical element to inspire others. Learn to listen more and speak less! Pay close attention to both what you say and how you say it. Your body language and tone of voice will give you away!

5. Get better at giving feedback. Be generous with words of praise. Give credit where credit is due, including public praise for a job well done. If you have to criticize, do it gently and give suggestions for improvement.

6. Give people confidence to reach their full potential. Fear is one of the main elements that prevent us from doing our best. From time to time, we all need some encouragement and a “gentle push” to do our best.

7. Share from your own experience. You have certain experiences that are unique to you. Stories are a way of revealing who we are and how we think. Stories allow you to point out behaviors and values without sounding as if you’re bragging or giving a lecture.

8. Be vulnerable. No one is perfect; when mistakes occur, graciously accept the consequences.

9. Develop a sense of humor. Finding humor in things is one of life’s greatest pleasures. Most people are drawn to a person who can make them laugh; a person with a good sense of humor is a joy to be around.

10. Don’t forget your roots. You are what you are today because of your family, friends, schools, previous jobs, and places you’ve lived. If you leave it all behind, you lose touch with an integral part of you.

Who are the most inspiring people in your life? What distinguishes them from the rest of the crowd?

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Capitalize on Your Team’s Strengths

October 31st, 2009

Managers have been schooled to assess the performance of their employees based on identifying weaknesses, and seeing the gap between what’s expected and what’s actually performed. We may be looking at a glass half empty. Marcus Buckingham and Donald Clifton, authors of the book, Now Discover Your Strengths, suggest that we build our lives around strengths and show us ways to minimize the impact of our weaknesses. The authors define strengths as “consistent near-perfect performance in an activity.” As an important corollary to this definition, they add “ability is only a strength if you can fathom yourself doing it repeatedly, happily and successfully.” They go on to thoroughly describe the hallmarks of the 34 strengths identified by the Gallup Organization and offer these tips to build our strengths:

Tip 1: Understand how to distinguish your natural talents from the skills you can learn. It’s true that you can improve at activities for which you are not naturally gifted. The question is whether you can reach consistent near-perfect performance, repeatedly. Talent is a naturally recurring pattern of thought, feeling or behavior. Knowledge consists of facts and lessons learned. Skills are the steps of an activity. With skills and knowledge, you can perfect and innate talent. On the other hand, you can acquire skills and knowledge to a point–to adequately get by–but you’ll never be able to attain the consistent near-perfect performance that comes with innate talent.

Tip 2: Have a system to identify your dominant talents. Try an activity to see how quickly you pick it up, skip the steps in the learning and add twists and things you haven’t been taught yet, and see whether you get so absorbed in the activity that you lose track of time.

Tip 3: Learn a common language to describe your talents and the talents of others. Our language isn’t up the challenge, of focusing on strengths in contrast to our language of focusing on weaknesses and criticism. While a person with people skills has a strength for relating well to people, he or she may not have the particular strength to success in a specific area. For example, one person with people skills might excel at building trust, while another person with people skills might be brilliant at networking. Most organizations are merely a reflection of individuals. Most organizations are put together in a dark room. Each piece is clumsily squeezed into place, and then the edges are ground down so they feel well positioned. But, pull up the shades, we need to let a little light into the room and we see the truth. The Gallup Organization research shows that: 8 out of 10 pieces in the organization are in the wrong place; 8 out of 10 employees feel they are in the wrong job 8 out of 10 employees never have a chance to reveal the best of themselves. It doesn’t have to be this way, A knowledge economy in an increasingly competitive global economy means that the right employees are becoming more precious with each passing year. Those of us who lead organizations must become more skilled when it comes to finding and using the right talent.

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